"These Lines may change your life"

 Take a minute to think about how far you have come around in life? Comparing yourself 7  years ago, are you reaching greater heights in life, achieving most of your goals, are living your dreams and feeling extremely fulfilled with your life?

if you want to live a better life, a quality life, you must learn to grow. Success will not come to us overnight, but it can be achieved through daily improvement and small increment over time. Give yourself at least 3 to 5 years for growth before you decided to quit and do something else. It may seem like a long time, but it is not.           

And no matter how, the day 5 or 7 years from now will surely arrive, the question is, ‘where will you be?’

 

What dose Growing up Mean:-

·       More Responsibility on your Shoulder.

·       No one standing beside you for help you.

·       To make important choices for yourself.

·       Realize your weakness and then to work on them.

·       To learn yourself.

·       To know more about yourself.

 

Here I am talking about 10 ways to make change  yourself:

1.   Compliment Yourself
Every  morning before you go on with your daily routine, take a  minutes to give yourself  a compliment. Whether you compliment your outfit, haircut, or how you recently completed a task using your unique skill sets, giving yourself a little emotional boost will make you happy. And, when you're happy with yourself, that emotion can be contagious to those around you. Inspirational speaker Tony Robbins has a mantra he says aloud to himself most days to put him in a peak performance state.

2.   Don't Make Excuses
Blaming your spouse, boss, or clients is fruitless and won't get you very far. Instead of pointing fingers and making excuses about why you aren't happy or successful in your personal or professional life, own your mistakes and learn from them. When you do this, you will become a better person. When I personally started living up to my mistakes and downfalls, my life turned itself around. I became happier and healthier, and my relationship with my wife improved. We are happier than ever.

3.   Be Honest and Direct
How would you feel if a loved one or business partner lied to you? Chances are you would see that as a violation of your trust. If you want to be a better person in either your personal or professional life, you should always tell the truth and state as clearly as possible what you are trying to convey. Learn to articulate your thoughts, feelings, and ideas in an open and honest manner.

4.   Be Helpful
Whether giving up your seat to an elderly person on the subway, assisting a co-worker on a project, or carrying in the groceries when your spouse comes back from the store,  being helpful is one of the easiest and most effective ways to practice becoming a better person. I find that the more I help others, the better I feel about myself and everyone around me.

5.   Listen to Others                   

Listening to people and giving everyone a voice is one of the greatest things you can do. To meet some of the most amazing people, close some of the biggest deals, and develop connections that will last me a lifetime all because I took time to listen to people. Being a good listener can change your life in a positive manner."

6.   Act Locally
It may not seem like a big deal, but supporting a local cause, donating clothes, or buying from local farmers' markets or businesses are simple ways you can help your specific region. You may not be able to save the world, but you very well could make a difference in your neck of the woods. Get to know and care about your community.

7.    Always Be Polite
How much effort does it take to say, "Thank you," or to hold the elevator door open for someone? Not much at all. However, these acts of kindness can make someone's day. I decided a few years ago that it doesn't matter if someone is ultra rude, condescending, or worse. The way someone else behaves is not going to determine my behavior.

8.    Be Yourself

 These include being able to align yourself with your values and beliefs, establish your identity, build courage, create boundaries, and find focus and direction.

9.    Be Open to Change
Whether trying a new restaurant, traveling to an unknown part of the world, or doing something that has always scared you, you should always be open to change. This allows you to grow because you experience something new. It helps you be high functioning and self-confident if you are not wary of change.

10.                    Educate Yourself
If you don't understand why one country is invading another, take the time to educate yourself on the current event. Ask a person intimately connected with the event for his or her thoughts. Remember, we're all interconnected, and being aware of different cultures, different people, and what their lives are like can make you a more well-rounded individual. This will also help you understand points of view different from your own.

If the power of self-growth inspires you to help others achieve the same.

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